Tampons.

Ok, I've had a few conversations with people lately that have sincerely disturbed me, no name naming, but it really did make me feel ill.
I've had people claim it's wrong for a woman to use tampons because it compromises her "virginity"......Really?! Look the fucking word up. if you're talking about the mucosa membrane, that could actually be painful to break in intercourse.
I mean, it really DISGUSTS me when men talk about desiring to shed blood and cause pain to a woman on her first experience, just so he can be assured she's a virgin, if you dont trust her, why the fuck would you sleep with her.....Jesus.
I mean, really tampons are just infinitely more comfortable for a female, because they don't smell for one, they don't itch, you're able to resume normal physical activity, ect. Why on earth would you encourage a woman not to for such a disgusting selfish reason? I personally think it's a GOOD idea not not have it intact for coitarche, but maybe my outlandish ideas are why guys don't ask me out, insincere men, all I have to say :) Glad really.

If you have anything to say or add to this, go ahead, but don't be all "ew, that's a yucky thing to talk about" becuase you saw the title and chose to read it frekkers.

Drugs?

Anti depressant medication, just going to say a quick few words about my opinion on it, I think it's really wonderful and necessary in many cases. As it gives you the chance to really detach and stand back without the mental and emotional chaos and actually pinpoint your issues, work through them without the angst. Mental illness has many levels, even though it may have started through emotional turmoil, it does create chemical imbalance that makes it super, duper hard to get through, and it gives a TEMPORARY boost so you can remove yourself a little to work through issues.
But it's not a permanent solution, I think relying on any kind of drug that alters the way you think and relate to yourself and others is a negative thing to rely on.
Anyway, gimme a yell with your thoughts and experience :)

Relationships

I've been confronted from many people, on my opinion on relationships, romantic, family, friend or whatever! or problems within a relationship. I'm just going to answer most common sort of questions and issues I'm personally confronted with.

(not that I claim to know about life and relationships, I honestly have very little world experience, just my observation and personal reflection)

One issue I see, all the time, in friendships, romantic relationships, and families is the belief that you cannot relate to people with dissimilar personalities and interests. Thus, reject those who are different.
My own opinion is that having a different perspective, skills hobbies and ways of relating to people and the world brings something new to the relationship and helps you to understands different points of view, extent your own concepts. Especially in a close or romantic relationship, where you are required to work as a partnership when relating to each other, as well as 'outsiders'. Having different attitudes and ways of dealing and different skills are really great for personal growth and working through life. (and hey, if you think that your friend, family or partner's hobbies are stupid, if you care about them, and they support it it must have some merit, right? :) )
Further digressing, I think that way too many people thrust themself into a close, personal relationship, thinking knowing personal things, about them and their experiences and life is knowing the person. You cannot know a person just from what they do and their personal moments, whether you can live from them day to day tends to depend on how they relate to other people, many and varied situations, how they operate and react. Which is, really, only learnt through time and observation. In my opinion

Then again, feelings and emotions are complex :) Foolish humans... :P

Casual Sex? I personaly disagree with it, telling me that you need to regularly have sex for your mental/physical health tells me you suck at jerking off and have no imagination. You have needs? Sure, you can have all kinds of crazy things happening with all the strange people you want. In your head. Once you take it outside of your head, you open yourself for
a) STDs
b) Emotional involvement/damage, don't really know other's circumstance or motives
c) Pregnancy with a person you don't care for
Long term, and short, much better and healthier to keep sex to a deeper, caring, personal experience. Within an exclusive relationship (yeah, that's my excuse..... :P )

This is just something about people that repels me right away, just wanting to throw it out there, I mean, sometimes I get people who you know, feel like they get along well with me and relate to me after meeting, and will absolutely throw themself at me, every time they see me within 200 metres, "hey, how you doing :3...how's your weekend, what's ur opinion on this, help me with this, guess what happen to me today!" blah blah, it really intimidates me '~' Or people online, who every time I log on, within a second start trying to get my attention, talk to me, ask opinions, tell me how great I am (?) I'm not a baby, I don't need affirmation from near strangers every two seconds, that seems more like you're sucking up than want to be my friend.
I just sort of think friendship is a process that you cant really force or leap into like that? I like certain etiquettes and personal space observed. I DO NOT want to hear about how your stepfather beat you, you don't feel as pretty as everyone else and your boyfriend never texts you anymore after knowing you for a week, it's DAMN AWKWARD. Ok? That's personal shit.
If you want to chat, or say hi, that's lovely, just please no smothering, unless you know I want you to smother me :3 then by all means go ahead, you know who you are!!!

Prolly gonna add more to this later, but all I have time for, so peace <3 Please leave me a comment or drop me a line about your own opinion and disagreements, love to talk to people :)

Moved to Facepalm book

On facebook nows, this will likely be neglected. Ta ta
http://www.facebook.com/people/Meg-Dunbar/100000922040221

Cabin fever!!!

I haven't left the house really in almost 2 weeks besides a jog around the block or something, I mean, I know I cant really go out atm for obvious reasons, but it's driving me nuts! I haven't seen anyone I don't live with for the past two weeks. Driving me insane, now I have an all clear to go back to school and normal activity.
Not that I have a great school truancy record at the best of times :3
Anyway!!!!! Need to get out and do something, Nicole you better catch up with me this week >:[ haven't caught up in forever! Roar

Rapscallion downed [Ogre Pinata] 25 man!!!!!

It's really annoying actually, as we haven't made ANY progress in 10 or 25 man ICC since putricide, and even that's too hard for people now. Doing icc25 yesterday, we were hitting enrage at about 16% on fester25, I mean, there are people CLEARLY not pulling their slack as dps, looking @ meter there are people doing 4k dps and under...I know it's lovely to have a guild run and all, but I personally would prefer to bring some pugs in and actually get it done, as this whole business makes me not want to really try anymore ): I mean, I've been saying FOREVER that we need to have some kind of "class captain" things, where the top players actually take some time to talk to those of same class and discuss how to standardise the dps and stats people stack. It would help our progression and loot council imo.

Ps: or just ditch the mentality that we are a serious competitive raiding guild, and promote we're more a fun, flexible bunch of people who still enjoy clearing content

Someone help me with formatting

I just really cant seem to get it right, no idea at all! need someone to sit down with me and explain how to make it look pretty, becuase when I hit preview, it looks fine, then hit publish all like OMGWTHROTFLBBQ. Seriously, thanks!